Breaking Barriers in Ad Tech: A Global Perspective on Race, Gender & Inclusion
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In this episode of A Black Executive Perspective Podcast, host Tony Tidbit engages in a thought-provoking discussion with Rebecca Deng, commercial advisor to TripleLift and principal board member of the Women in Programmatic Network. They explore the stark differences in racial identity between Europe and America, the impacts of Rebecca's multicultural upbringing, and her journey from Europe to being a trailblazer in ad tech. Rebecca shares her career milestones, and her work advocating for gender parity, and provides advice for aspiring professionals. The episode underscores the importance of networking, mentorship, and systemic change in organizations to foster a more inclusive industry.
▶︎ In This Episode
00:00: Introduction to the Dichotomy of Race in Europe and America
00:26: Welcome to the Black Executive Perspective Podcast
01:07: Introducing Rebecca Deng: A Trailblazer in Media
03:05 Rebecca's Early Life and Family Background
11:26: Navigating High School and Cultural Transitions
13:45: From KORU to a Career in Media
19:25: Challenges and Triumphs in the Ad Tech Industry
22:16: Facing Discrimination and Overcoming Obstacles
28:33: Experiences of Racial Bias Abroad
31:46: Creating Opportunities in Your Career
34:54: Women in Programmatic Network
39:57: Givsly Award Finalist
44:07: Advice for Breaking into the Industry
47:48: Steps Companies Can Take for DE&I
50:40: Final Thoughts and Call to Action
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Transcript
You know, what is so interesting about
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:the dichotomy between being in
Europe and being in America is that
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:when you're in Europe, people are
like, what country are you from?
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:And then in America, you're just black.
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:Like, there's really no
distinction whatsoever.
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:We'll discuss race and how it
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:Tony Tidbit: plays a factor, and
how we didn't even talk about this
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:topic, because we were afraid.
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:A Black Executive Perspective.
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:We're coming to you live from the
new BEP Studio for another Thought.
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:Provoking episode of a black executive
perspective, podcasts, a safe space
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:where we discuss all matters related to
race, culture, and those uncomfortable
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:topics that we tend to avoid.
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:I'm your host, Tony Tidbit.
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:So before we get started, I want
everyone to remember to check out
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mission is to save the black family
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:by first saving the black man.
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:So definitely check them
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:com.
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:That is Code M Magazine.
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:So today we are joined in our studio
by Rebecca Deng, commercial advisor to
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:TripleLift and principal board member
of the Women in Programmatic Network.
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:She's here to share her journey
and early life in Europe.
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:to becoming a trailblazer in media
and programmatic advertising.
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:We'll discuss her career milestones,
the impact work advocating for gender
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:parity, and her advice for aspiring
professionals in the industry.
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:So let me tell you a
little bit about Rebecca.
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:Rebecca Deng, uh, is the
commercial advisor to the chief
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:revenue officer at Triple F.
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:In that capacity, she collaborates closely
with the CRO, revenue leadership team.
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:Executive leadership team and
various cross functional teams
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:to shape revenue strategies.
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:She refined helps refine the
company's policies and optimize
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:their operational systems.
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:Additionally, she holds positions as a U.
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:S.
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:principal board member for the
woman in programmatic network.
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:Since its inception in 2020.
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:The network has championed initiatives
to advance the industry, offering
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:networking events, speaking
platforms, and discussions on
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:emerging trends while leaDeng
efforts to close the gender pay gap.
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:Rebecca Deng, welcome to a Black
Executive Perspective Podcast, my sister.
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:Rebecca Deng: Thank you
so much for having me.
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:I'm really excited to be here.
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:Tony Tidbit: Well, thank
you for being here.
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:And look, you've, I mean, it's amazing.
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:You've done a lot of stuff.
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:And let's be fair.
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:You've only been on the
planet a short period of time.
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:So, so excited that you
were able to come in.
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:And join us here in the studio
to talk about your journey.
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:And more importantly, talk about
the things in terms of how you
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:are really looking to make the
difference in the tech industry.
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:And then more importantly, how
you're looking to help others.
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:But before we get started, tell
us a little bit about where you
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:currently live in that and a
little bit about your family.
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:Rebecca Deng: Thanks for having me again.
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:So I actually live on the Upper
East Side, best side, in my
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:opinion, was born in New York.
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:Um, my family's here, my
grandmother's here, though we're a
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:little bit spread out across the U.
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:S.
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:New York is pretty much home
and we spend a lot of time here.
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:Tony Tidbit: Got it, got it, got it.
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:And let me ask you this.
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:Look, you're working for a major
organization in the ad tech.
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:You're working with the leadership in
terms of helping them from a revenue
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:standpoint, drive revenue, optimize
revenue for this organization.
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:You've got a lot on your plate.
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:You're traveling, traveling a lot.
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:So the question I have, why did you
want to come to the BEP studios today
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:to talk about and share your journey?
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:Rebecca Deng: Well, I wanted to come
and discuss my journey because I think.
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:You know, having looked at the back
catalog of the people that you've
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:spoken to, I think that there's
an opportunity to share stories.
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:Um, and I think especially as a black
executive, you know, those stories can be
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:lacking and so it's a great opportunity
to be able to share with other people.
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:Tony Tidbit: Well, we appreciate
that you're willing to be
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:open and open and sharing, so.
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:You ready to talk about it?
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:I am.
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:All right.
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:So let's talk about it.
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:So look, you have a, you've,
it's, it's been a, um, a
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:journey, your early life, right?
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:So talk to us a little bit about,
you know, How your early life
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:influenced to where you are today.
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:You grew up in, you lived in other,
in other countries in Europe.
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:Your father had a very significant role.
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:Talk a little bit about, share
a little bit with us on that.
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:Rebecca Deng: Sure.
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:So I was born in New York.
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:Um, but my father was an ambassador
from the Sudan before it split to
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:the Netherlands and to Germany.
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:So in the process of that,
we lived a little bit.
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:of everywhere.
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:Um, my mother is a Jamaican citizen,
but she's naturalized American.
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:So every time.
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:She would have the baby,
she would come back home.
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:So we were born here, and then
we would continue on the road to
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:wherever, um, my family was stationed.
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:So
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:Tony Tidbit: hold on one second, how
many brothers and sisters do you have?
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:Rebecca Deng: I'm the youngest of four.
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:Tony Tidbit: Okay, alright,
so just so I'm clear here.
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:Yes, yes, yes.
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:When your mother had, when she
got pregnant, she came back.
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:She came home.
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:Right?
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:Had the baby.
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:Stayed with family a little bit.
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:And then went back to Europe
where you guys were, okay.
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:And we hit the road.
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:Rebecca Deng: So we lived a little bit
of everywhere because my dad also studied
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:in between at Oxford and Cambridge.
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:So we lived in London, we lived in
Paris, we lived in Berlin, we lived in
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:Bonn before the capital moved to Berlin.
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:Um, Um, lived in the Hague.
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:Like I said, a little bit of everywhere.
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:Tony Tidbit: Wow.
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:I mean, so number one, now,
how old were you when you were
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:living in all these places?
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:Rebecca Deng: Up until seven.
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:So I was young, but I have really clear
memories of the different houses, like the
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:different furniture, the different rugs.
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:Um, yeah, it was, uh.
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:It was a lot of movement, but I
really enjoyed doing it as a family.
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:And I think that's what keeps,
you know, the memories clear.
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:Like we were doing family things together.
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:Tony Tidbit: Now your father
didn't just have any job.
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:He was an ambassador to Sudan.
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:Am I correct?
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:So from the Sudan, from the
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:Tony Tidbit: Sudan to
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:Rebecca Deng: the Netherlands, to
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:Tony Tidbit: the Netherlands
and then to Germany.
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:So he was an ambassador.
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:Okay.
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:Which that's not, you
know, uh, a regular job.
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:Right.
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:So tell us a little bit about him being
an ambassador and, and, and what, what
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:type of lifestyle did you guys live as
you were traveling all of all of Europe?
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:So when you live.
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:Um, and that type of setup, luckily
certain things are paid for, your
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:home's paid for, you get a cook, a
chauffeur, a nanny, but you get the
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:opportunity to do lots of travel.
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:So, as my dad would move, we would move,
my mom would have her relatives come
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:and visit, um, you kind of have your own
springboard around Europe, essentially.
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:Um, but what I would say was really,
you know, interesting about that role
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:is there is the tension between You know
what you as an individual might think
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:and then what your government thinks
like it is pretty much a political
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:role So there are you know The times
when you don't necessarily agree.
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:Um, but nevertheless, like you're
a family, you're a union, you,
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:um, you know, entertain people.
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:You are representatives of your country
wherever you're hosted, essentially.
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:Tony Tidbit: Right.
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:So, just so I'm clear though, 'cause you
just got finished saying that there are
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:times when you may not agree, uh, and
I'm basically, this is from your father's
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:standpoint of being an ambassador, right?
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:Mm-hmm . That he may not
agree about certain things.
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:Gimme some examples, like
specifically like what does that mean?
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:So from a policy perspective, um,
you know, the stance that your
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:particular country might have towards
another, um, I think human rights,
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:like those types of things where
you might not necessarily agree.
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:Um, and then my father was also,
um, a Christian at the time when,
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:you know, the Sudan, when it was
one country was, um, Is still today.
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:Majority Muslim.
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:And then he himself was from
a, um, minority community when
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:the Sudan was one country.
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:So like, those are the types of tensions.
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:Tony Tidbit: Got it.
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:Got it.
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:Got it.
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:But you still, he's still got to
be the ambassador for the country.
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:Right.
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:Regardless of what his feelings or he may
not agree with their political stances,
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:but he still represents the country.
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:Right.
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:And then you guys still had
to be a part of that as well.
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:Yeah.
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:Right.
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:Which, you know, obviously in good times
when everybody's happy, it can be great.
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:And then obviously when there's a little
tension, it can definitely play a part.
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:Cause I would imagine, and again, you
are young, but you know, like today, if
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:somebody lives, moves to same situation,
their parent is a ambassador, uh, uh,
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:from the United States to the Netherlands.
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:So wherever the case may be, right.
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:And then there could be certain policy
things that people in Netherlands don't
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:like about here in the United States.
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:And then.
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:You're, you know, your father,
you're, that's your father and
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:you're going to school and then
some kids could spring that up like
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:you believe in or your country.
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:So did you run into
anything of that before?
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:And I know you were
young, so probably not.
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:Rebecca Deng: No, I mean, I think what
I ran into mostly, um, were just seeing
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:differences in general, um, I mean, I,
the place where I went to school for the
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:longest period of time was in Germany.
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:And so in terms of the population,
it was very much majority white.
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:And then pretty much anyone who wasn't
was from the international community.
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:Tony Tidbit: So,
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:Rebecca Deng: um, it
was more of just seeing.
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:The differences, but a lot of us
all came from that background of
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:our parents were from somewhere
else from somewhere else, right?
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:Tony Tidbit: And then so talk a little
bit about how did your mother because
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:that's not an average upbringing no, okay,
and then going to school in different
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:countries and and obviously the the
attention in terms of you know, you're Uh,
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:uh, uh, uh, ambassador's daughter, right?
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:And your family.
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:So there's limos, there's
events, there's all these things.
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:There's houses.
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:Like you were saying earlier, all these
things that when you grow up and you look
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:at it, I'm like, wow, we got it made.
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:So how did your mother, how does
your family keep you guys grounded?
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:And when those things happen?
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:I mean, I would say that my mother
has been my greatest advocate, but in
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:general, what she did that was a little
bit different is she took us everywhere.
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:So she doesn't know how to drive.
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:But wherever we were, if she
wanted to take us to a museum,
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:she would take us herself.
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:You know, if she, uh, felt like we
were behind with reaDeng because
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:we were moving all the time, she
would tutor us, she would find a
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:tutor, and she very much led things.
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:Um, especially, you know, from
her perspective, she was not from
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:the same country my dad was from.
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:And so there was even tension there,
um, between, you know, the expectations
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:of that background, um, and, you know.
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:Um, even as simple as like how many
children you're expected to have 10,
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:you know, and my mom wasn't doing that.
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:Uh, she really wasn't, but it's
one of those things where, you
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:know, you take what you have
and, um, you make the best of it.
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:Tony Tidbit: So, and look, that's
no different than any family, right?
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:No matter where you live at.
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:Right.
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:So thanks for sharing that.
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:So where did you go to high school?
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:Did you go to high school in Europe?
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:Or did you go to high school here?
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:Rebecca Deng: No.
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:So I went to high school in, Um,
Milton, uh, sorry, Milton Academy.
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:So it's eight miles outside of Boston.
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:So I was a boarDeng student.
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:Tony Tidbit: So talk a little
bit about the transition.
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:Um, you've been in Europe
for a lot of your time.
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:You go in all these different
schools and different countries.
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:Now you're coming here
to the United States.
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:Talk a little bit about that transition.
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:I mean, I think, um, you know,
what is so interesting about
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:the dichotomy between being in Europe.
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:and being in America is that
when you're in Europe, people are
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:like, what country are you from?
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:And then in America, you're just black.
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:Like, there's really no
distinction whatsoever.
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:Um, so the community where we lived,
like when we moved back to the U.
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:S.,
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:we had, you know, Caribbeans, we had black
people, we had people from everywhere.
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:Um, and I think being there in that
community and, um, you know, seeing
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:kind of like the petty squabbles
that we all had with each other,
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:you wouldn't necessarily realize
that black is not a monolith, right?
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:That there are different communities
with different backgrounds and things.
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:So it was interesting coming
to boarding school and kind of
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:seeing that, you know, all of,
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:all of that nuance was a little bit lost.
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:Tony Tidbit: Well, I, I, and I can
imagine that was a culture shock in a way.
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:Right?
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:Yeah.
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:Because to your point, it was
more about you representing a
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:country versus your skin color.
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:Okay.
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:Which I would imagine, like,
what are they talking about?
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:Right?
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:How are they just, Taking that, you know,
I grew up, my mother is Jamaican and
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:my father is a Sudan, Sudanese, right?
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:And now I can, everywhere
I've been at, I've been that.
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:And then when I come here, I'm just black.
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:And, uh, it's kind of like, uh,
like the multi dimension is just
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:Tony Tidbit: Squoze.
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:They put you in a box.
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:Yes.
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:You just become one.
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:There is no multi dimension.
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:You're in a box, right?
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:Just based on your skin color.
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:So Obviously, you know,
you've done very, very well.
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:Now you attended, if I remember
correctly, you went to KORU, right?
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:Yes.
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:Talk a little bit about,
number one, what is KORU?
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:Mm hmm.
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:And then tell us a little bit about
how it influenced you and helped you in
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:terms of your endeavors moving forward.
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:Rebecca Deng: Sure.
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:So, KORU is a, at the time, it was
a program that helped people, um,
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:students who didn't necessarily know
what they wanted to do to prepare
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:for their life after college.
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:And so, I got my degree at KORU.
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:In ancient Greek and Latin.
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:And I was convinced I was going to
get a PhD, but then I had friends who
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:were in the process of doing that.
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:And I took classes with them.
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:And they were all broke.
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:And I was like, that's just not for me.
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:So I, hold on one second.
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:So, so , I mean, it's true.
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:So that's
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:Tony Tidbit: number one, right?
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:Yeah.
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:Is that, and I hope for the young students
who's, you know, thinking about what
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:career they want to get involved in, okay.
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:Is that, yes, it may sound great that you
want to get a degree in Oceanic, uh, uh,
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:uh, exploratory stuff, but at the end of
the day, you also gotta be able to be,
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:make a living and make money too, right?
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:So that.
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:Once you saw that, that
woke you up a little bit.
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:Is that what I'm hearing?
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:And I was like, this is not going to work.
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:Um, and actually if I had
done that, I would have.
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:started on the job market, like
in the middle of the pandemic,
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:which would have been horrific.
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:Rebecca Deng: Um, but anyway, um, so I
did that program and I was just unsure
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:about what I wanted to do, but we had
the opportunity at the time to work
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:with different, um, host companies.
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:So on the West Coast, they could
work with, um, brands like Facebook.
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:I was able to work with HubSpot
and essentially we would go
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:through the KORU program and we
would do a capstone project for.
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:The corporate sponsor.
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:So we did a project for HubSpot.
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:We showed them our learnings, but
at the same time, you're able to
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:learn about the company, learn about
like, how do you present yourself?
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:Well, how do you interview also just
like the basics of like Excel functions?
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:Like, can you do a VBA macro
for your first day of work?
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:Tony Tidbit: Right.
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:Right.
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:You
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:Rebecca Deng: know, like the
types of things that really.
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:Make a difference and and
give you a leg up as you're
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:on your path to your first job
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:Tony Tidbit: And and so that
introduced you to media.
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah, so I had the
opportunity to interview with essence
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:digital Um, at the time, now Essence
Media Com, at the end of the KORU program.
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:So they helped place, uh, KORU helped
place students at Essence Digital.
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:And so I got my first
job in September of:
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:And it was really interesting
because it was a rotational
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:role as a media executive.
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:So I did a little bit of everything.
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:My first job was in Ad Ops.
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:Which was amazing and really taught me
like the fundamentals because how many
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:people actually know what an ad call is?
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:Tony Tidbit: Um,
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:Rebecca Deng: and then from there
I moved into account management for
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:Google because we were agency of
record at the time, I was able to
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:do biddable media, do search, do
planning, do a little bit of everything.
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:Tony Tidbit: So it was a way for
you to understand the back end.
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:Tony Tidbit: Of digital ad campaigns,
how they worked, working with clients,
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:uh, account management, all those things.
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:Right.
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:To give you more of an education in terms
of when you go to a website, you see
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:an ad, you're like, Oh, there it goes.
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:Right.
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:But there's a lot more to it.
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:Right.
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:So.
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:You know, as, as you started, this was
your first job into the ad tech field,
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:what made you, number one, think that
this is something I like, I'm interested
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:in versus I was going to get a PhD.
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:All right.
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:And then number two, what made
you decide that this is something
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:I want to continue to grow?
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:Rebecca Deng: I think when your
agency side, you have the opportunity
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:to see things happen real time.
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:You get to see clients come and go,
but you also see vendors come in
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:and there was so much happening.
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:You know, when I started working,
that was, you know, homepage,
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:takeovers were everything.
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:Um, and then programmatic,
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:Tony Tidbit: the
evolution, it kept growing.
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:It was growing tech, new technology.
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:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
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:And you could see just the
changes in how people were buying,
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:what people were interested in.
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:And it, you know, gave me assurance
that there was something here.
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:Tony Tidbit: Got it.
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:Got it.
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:You know, it's interesting.
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:Cause you know, I started my career in TV
advertising and selling local television
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:advertising, and then eventually,
you know, I decided that I was going
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:to stay in the advertising field.
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:And then I went to print and the
two thing that, although they're
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:different media vehicles, they were
similar because once you learn them.
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:That was it.
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:All right.
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:There was nothing new.
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:You know, once you learn how a TV ad
runs and how to sell it and this and
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:now, and I, there was nothing new to it.
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:Once you understand a print ad, a
quarter page, half page, full page
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:ad, then it was nothing new, right?
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:But when I came to the
digital side, to your point.
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:And you, you never could feel
comfortable because you were always
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:learning something new because the
technology continued to evolve.
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:And that was the exciting part of being
on on the forefront of how people engage
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:in advertising from a digital standpoint.
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:Now, you've been Essence
Digital, Samba TV.
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:L'Oreal and now TripleLift, right?
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:Tell me a little bit of
highlights, share with us some
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:of the highlights of those roles.
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:You already talked about Essence Digital.
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:Tell us some of the other highlights
that you had working at Samba,
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:L'Oreal and TripleLift as well.
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:Rebecca Deng: Sure.
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:I mean, I think, I think really the
highlight for me in all of these,
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:um, career moves has just been kind
of checking the trends and following
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:the market and really trying to.
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:Get the best experience
of, of what that changes.
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:So when I was at essence, I really saw
the move towards programmatic and I
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:wanted the opportunity to like, from
the inside, figure out what's going on.
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:So I had the opportunity to move to
Samba and actually run managed service
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:campaigns and like be in the trade desk,
be in oath, be in all these different
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:platforms and actually be hands on keys.
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:And I think that has just
been so invaluable for me.
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:Long term to understand, you
know, not just talk about what
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:it means to be a media buyer,
but actually buying that media.
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:Um, and then when I was at Samba, I kind
of started to see the shift away from
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:managed service towards more data usage.
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:And I was thinking, Hmm, it's really
interesting to see, like, what,
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:what would this look like on the
other side, on the client side?
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:Um, and I moved over to L'Oreal and
from there I had the opportunity.
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:To use those audiences to build different
types of campaigns to think a little bit
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:differently as the brand, um, you know,
how are we going to segment our consumers?
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:How are we going to market to them?
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:And it was an interesting role because
it was kind of a little bit of being
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:hands on keys, but then also having
different L'Oreal brands as internal
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:clients, particularly, um, people
who are more print or TV focused.
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:So it wasn't just running campaigns.
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:It was.
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:Explaining this is how
digital media works.
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:This is how we can take your print
strategy or what you're doing on TV and
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:take those spots and think about what it
looks like to do this programmatically.
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:So I think coming full circle, being
able to chart that change, um, and
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:particularly the experience at L'Oreal
was so formative because there is the
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:element of doing the work, but then also.
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:You know, when you're in ad tech,
typically all of your colleagues
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:know what's going on, but it was
this unique experience where it
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:wasn't just selling the thing.
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:It was being a team with the
person you were selling to.
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:Tony Tidbit: Right.
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:Right.
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:So number one, having that holistic
view, most people don't get that, right.
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:Which is fantastic because now
you can see the full circle, how
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:things work from an ad stamp.
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:Excuse me, from an agency
standpoint, brand standpoint, as
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:well as from a vendor standpoint.
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:Let me ask you this, you know, being
at those different organizations,
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:talk a little bit about the challenges
that you faced as being, um, a person
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:of color, as well as a woman, right.
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:At those organizations in the industry.
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:Rebecca Deng: I think what
I have struggled with is,
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:you know, when something happens and
you're like, did something really happen?
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:Did it not as in terms of.
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:If, you know, there's an opportunity
that you want that you get passed
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:up on, maybe someone makes a comment
and you're constantly thinking, did
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:they say what I think they said?
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:Or, or, you know, was it
just a passing comment?
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:So sometimes for me, what I've struggled
with is trying to understand, like, am
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:I necessarily facing discrimination?
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:Am I necessarily You know, being
passed over, or am I just so activated
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:that I'm spiraling a little bit?
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:Like, how real is what
I'm really encountering?
483
:Um, and to be honest, like, I think
that can be just as debilitating as,
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:Tony Tidbit: as
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:Rebecca Deng: something truly happening.
486
:Um, but there's, there's never, there
hasn't been anything in particular
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:that stands out, but I think just even
constantly second guessing yourself.
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:You know, when I Um, and I think
it's really important for people
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:to understand that, you know, when
you're trying to achieve something,
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:do people, you know, really see me as
being the owner of that achievement?
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:Like, um, even when I was in boarding
school, I remember when, um, we got
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:our college acceptances and, you know,
people who were legacies, their family
493
:had been going to Brown since donkey
years, since the day Brown opened, would
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:say of my, you know, classmates, Oh,
well, so and so only got in because.
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:They were black.
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:And I'm like, do people
think that way about me?
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:And, and that carries with you.
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:Tony Tidbit: Right, right.
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:Let me ask you this because number
one, thanks for sharing that.
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:I think that's something that a lot
of, um, people of color deal with.
501
:Even though we try to ignore it, even
though we try to, you know, walk with,
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:um, one shoe in front of the other.
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:We just try to assimilate
with everybody else.
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:We see ourselves as part
of this team, company.
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:Um, we're trying to be an
asset at the organization.
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:We're trying to make a difference.
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:We want to grow and stuff
of that nature, right?
508
:But that must be very,
that can be very stressful.
509
:Mm hmm.
510
:To, as much as you try to ignore
it, little things come up and then
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:you tend to kind of let them go.
512
:But then they keep adding up and then to
your point, sometimes, you know, sometimes
513
:you may overthink things because now this
thing that you've tried to ignore and you
514
:try to be like everyone else, it won't let
you, you know, they won't let you do that.
515
:Okay.
516
:So talk a little bit about
that, because here's the thing.
517
:When you wake, when you wake
up in the morning and you.
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:So when you come to work, you're
thinking about, Oh, like everybody
519
:else, Oh man, I got this to do.
520
:I got that to do.
521
:I got that.
522
:Oh, I got this meeting.
523
:I do this.
524
:Oh, I hope they like what I put together.
525
:Blah, blah, blah.
526
:Like Joe or Harry or,
or Samantha or whatever.
527
:But then when you throw this other
thing on top of that, it becomes like
528
:an extra weight that you or we have
to carry that other people don't.
529
:So can you speak to a
little bit about that?
530
:Rebecca Deng: Yeah, I mean.
531
:I think it's one of those things where,
like you said, you don't necessarily
532
:notice the burden of it until something
cracks and then you realize how much
533
:of it you've been carrying or how many,
just how many things mentally you're
534
:trying to keep hold of, like, you
know, if you have a presentation, you
535
:obviously want to prepare, you want to
get your notes together, you want to
536
:get the slides looking good, but then
you also think, You know, even the
537
:genesis of the opportunity to give the
presentation or being able to, to go on
538
:a certain business trip or to do certain
things, you wonder, how am I perceived?
539
:And I think in certain instances, I solve
that by over preparing, by wanting to be
540
:even better, by wanting to do even more.
541
:Um, because you don't necessarily
want there to be any comment about,
542
:like, the quality of the work that
you're, So there'll be certain
543
:instances where it feels like the
load of preparation is probably, you
544
:know, higher than it needs to be more
intricately wrought, perhaps more,
545
:more overthought than it needs to be.
546
:But it's kind of like, this
is my insurance policy for
547
:people to know that what I do.
548
:Is good because I am good,
549
:Tony Tidbit: right?
550
:Right.
551
:Which is a big, which is
something everybody wants.
552
:Right.
553
:You know, I, it reminds me of, um,
and I can relate because it reminds
554
:me, um, of several instances.
555
:And, but I had a guest on the show, um,
and she talked about it a little bit.
556
:And, you know, at the end of
the day, you again, put one foot
557
:in front of the other, right?
558
:You just want to be the best you
and you want to assimilate and just
559
:people to see you for what you bring
to the table, what personality you
560
:have, what's your character, those
things that should matter, right?
561
:And so, but then at the end,
you're not thinking about race.
562
:No, no, I mean, not primarily you
just live in your life, right?
563
:You live in your life You're not
even thinking about these things,
564
:but then like she said then the world
reminds you yes They bring up race.
565
:Mm-hmm . You know, like you were
saying earlier about when you were
566
:getting your college acceptance,
you know, you, oh, I'm going to
567
:Georgetown, or I'm going to Princeton.
568
:Or she only got her thing
because , she was black.
569
:Mm-hmm . I mean, why can't you just,
why can't it just be you wasn't
570
:thinking now, you were just like,
I'm excited and I'm, and I'm saying
571
:this generally for everyone, right?
572
:It's just, unfortunately these things
come up and then all of a sudden
573
:when you think that you're just as
equal as everybody else, then the
574
:world brings things to you, right?
575
:And then all of a sudden you gotta
say, well, where did this come from?
576
:Have you experienced that at all?
577
:Rebecca Deng: Yeah, I mean, I've,
I've had some, I would say some
578
:of these experiences I've had,
interestingly, were in Europe.
579
:So I.
580
:Studied abroad in high school for a year.
581
:I lived with a host family in Italy.
582
:Most amazing experience of my life.
583
:But I moved there in 2009 and just
before I got there the Italian
584
:government was trying to make being an
illegal immigrant a crime and it was
585
:honestly a little bit nuts because
I lived in a place that was kind of
586
:like off the beaten track kind of in
the middle of nowhere and um I always
587
:was treated, even to this day when
I go to Europe, like an immigrant.
588
:Like people will ask me for directions
right away when I get off the plane,
589
:people will have an expectation of
language skills I don't have, but
590
:people assume that I'm from there.
591
:Um, and so I never really
get the experience of
592
:being a guest.
593
:And I think that's one of, um, one
of those experiences for me where
594
:you know, when you book a trip,
when you go somewhere, you're just
595
:looking at like, what sites can I see?
596
:Like, you know, what
paintings are on offer?
597
:Like what, what, what will
be available for me to do?
598
:And then you get off the plane.
599
:And then everyone's
like, Well, where's this?
600
:Where's that?
601
:You know, I, I, people will, I gotten
off the plane at Amsterdam before
602
:people asked me to sign petitions.
603
:I'm like, what are you talking about?
604
:Like, I'm not from here, but there's
no, I guess there's no separation,
605
:no understanDeng that like,
606
:if I didn't present the way that
I did, like it would, would you
607
:necessarily consider me to be,
you know, um, someone who's here.
608
:But it's kind of like in the
way that like the only expats
609
:that you ever meet are white.
610
:You know, like, oh, okay.
611
:Tony Tidbit: Got it,
got it, got it, got it.
612
:Got, you know, like there,
there's just like no.
613
:So you can't be from the United States.
614
:Rebecca Deng: Exactly.
615
:.
Tony Tidbit: Alright, so, so I, so I think I understand where
616
:you're coming from now, right?
617
:Yeah.
618
:When you go there, you know, um,
people don't see you as an American No.
619
:They see you as an
immigrant of that country.
620
:Yes.
621
:Right.
622
:That from wherever.
623
:From wherever.
624
:Right.
625
:Um, which is interesting.
626
:I mean, and I never even, and that's a
good point about the expats, um, 'cause
627
:I never even thought of that before.
628
:And so.
629
:Here's the thing, you've done a tremendous
job, you know, in your early part of your,
630
:because you still got a lot of things to
do, and you're gonna, there's a ton of
631
:stuff success that you're going to have,
and you're gonna, you know, o there's a
632
:lot of doors that are gonna open for you.
633
:So regardless of that, you still have
been very successful in your career.
634
:Talk a little bit about
how you created the role.
635
:Not at triple lift because that role
wasn't something that was on a job board.
636
:Okay.
637
:And, um, based on your tenacity and
your forward thinking, you were able to
638
:create nothing, something out of nothing.
639
:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
640
:So I think what I would say just in
general, when you're thinking about
641
:what your next step is, I think there's
an element of like doing the research,
642
:seeing what's available, but then
also just the brass tacks of like.
643
:So I had the opportunity to work with
the CRO in my previous role, and I was
644
:just thinking about like, you know, how
could I add more value to him, to his day?
645
:Um, and then I had the opportunity
to work, uh, sorry, to, to attend a
646
:conference and I met a woman who said
that her job, like in the course of the
647
:discussion was chief of staff to the CRO.
648
:And then I was like, that's interesting.
649
:So I walked up to her and I was like,
I think I maybe want to do that.
650
:And she was like, great, here's my number.
651
:Um, we met, we had a couple of calls and
she was like, you know, if this is what
652
:you want to do, think about, you know,
job descriptions like this or like that.
653
:But I think there's, you know,
there's more than to it than just
654
:coming up with a job description.
655
:It's like really putting it into practice.
656
:So thinking about, okay, by the time that
I potentially pitch this role to someone,
657
:I want them to already think it's a given.
658
:I want to think about what are
the ways in my current day to day
659
:I can come up with strategies.
660
:I can do things that kind of just like
insert yourself, but in a positive way.
661
:So that by the time you come around
and you say, Hey, I'm thinking about
662
:X, Y, Z, role, what are your thoughts?
663
:And then they look at the job
description, they're like, well,
664
:you've already been doing this.
665
:Tony Tidbit: I love it.
666
:I love it because that's the,
you know, there's, uh, somebody
667
:taught me this years ago, act as if
668
:Rebecca Deng: manifest,
669
:Tony Tidbit: right?
670
:Manifest, right?
671
:And when you just do it without saying
you got to pay me more for me to do that,
672
:or, you know, I, I'm, yeah, just do it.
673
:Right?
674
:Manifest.
675
:Act as if because you're creating
opportunities for yourself
676
:without even recognizing it.
677
:And here's the kicker.
678
:This worked out well
for you at TripleLift.
679
:However, even if it didn't, you're still
doing things and setting yourself up for
680
:the opportunities at another company.
681
:Right?
682
:Because you've already
been acting as if so.
683
:I think that is fantastic.
684
:Talk a little bit about, you know,
the women in the programmatic network.
685
:How did you create?
686
:Talk a little bit about that
and what you guys are doing.
687
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688
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689
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690
:or wherever you get your podcasts.
691
:Hit subscribe now to stay connected
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692
:inspire, and lead the change.
693
:Rebecca Deng: Yeah, so I actually chatted
with a friend who I used to work with.
694
:L'oréal and I said, since agency time.
695
:It's like when I was working agency side,
I just don't really know what's going on.
696
:Um, I feel like when you're at the
agency, people are coming in and out.
697
:You know what?
698
:You know, the bleeDeng edge, so to speak.
699
:And I told them like, I just don't really
know what's going on in the industry.
700
:I only really know about what's
happening with, you know, SSPs.
701
:And he said, well, there's
this great group called the
702
:women in programmatic network.
703
:They're based in London, but
they do some things in New York.
704
:You should check them out.
705
:So I checked them out, went to their
LinkedIn page, checked out their
706
:website, saw what they were doing.
707
:And then there was a volunteer
opportunity to be a regional lead
708
:and to essentially, you know, start
bringing the programmatic network.
709
:To the U.
710
:S.
711
:And it originally started at the
beginning of the pandemic when our
712
:two co founders went to an ad tech
conference, and they were only women.
713
:And they're like, all
right, enough is enough.
714
:So they started the group for
women to get together, basically to
715
:create a platform to elevate women.
716
:And we really think about what
we do around three major piece,
717
:um, to increase the power, pay
and parity of women in ad tech.
718
:And so, um, Over the past couple of years,
I've been blessed with a volunteer team.
719
:We've been able to build them out.
720
:We do, um, Um, and so we've
done a cornerstone event every
721
:year with different sponsors.
722
:So we've done, um, our
international women's day event
723
:in March of last this year.
724
:It's still 2024 with the trade desk.
725
:We just did, um, an event with
double verify with cognitive, where
726
:we put on panels, where we create
opportunities for women to speak
727
:about the work that they're doing.
728
:And it's been really rewarding.
729
:And the number of women who have
said to me, I wish I had this 10
730
:years ago is like, really astounDeng.
731
:And I will also say the number of men
who have just been so excited to be
732
:allies, to do things, to sponsor, to tell
the women in their lives in ad tech to
733
:check us out has really been humbling.
734
:Tony Tidbit: That is awesome.
735
:I love it.
736
:I love anything.
737
:Any, in, have you guys seen
any increases in terms of.
738
:You know, pay equity, uh, power, is
it just more of more, just making
739
:people aware of these situations?
740
:Rebecca Deng: Well, what we would
like to do, cause this has been
741
:our like first full year in the U.
742
:S.,
743
:what we would like to do moving
into the next year is really focus
744
:on like some key areas where we
can make an impact really quickly.
745
:So we have our own, um, collection
of speakers on our website, but then,
746
:you know, you're out in the wild
and then you see like a manhole.
747
:a panel full of men.
748
:So like maybe there's an opportunity
there where perhaps, you know, we can
749
:take our network and, and, um, let
those people know that, you know, we
750
:have this pool of women available.
751
:Um, we haven't really started collecting
stats like in terms of pay, but,
752
:uh, in the new year, we would really
love to start doing some type of.
753
:mentorship where we can create those
one on one relationships with people
754
:so they can talk about those types of
things because so much of advocating
755
:for yourself, especially, you know, when
you're a woman or you feel like you're
756
:from an underrepresented group is wanting
to do it tactfully and, and knowing, you
757
:know, that you're doing the right thing.
758
:Exactly, exactly.
759
:And you only get that from.
760
:Um, you know, discussion from,
from mentorship, from one on one,
761
:like understanDeng, like, can
you really ask for that much?
762
:Can you really do that?
763
:And then someone comes along
and they're like, yes, right.
764
:And so we want to facilitate that.
765
:Tony Tidbit: How can companies
or individuals get involved or
766
:be assist, provide assistance?
767
:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
768
:So we have, um, a website called
the women in programmatic.
769
:Um, you can attend our events
in New York, get involved.
770
:We are just in the process of
opening a chapter in Denver.
771
:We, we would love to go nationwide.
772
:Uh, feel free to volunteer.
773
:There's plenty of work.
774
:Don't put a
775
:Tony Tidbit: cap on it.
776
:Right.
777
:Don't, you know, we are going
to, we're going, we're going,
778
:Rebecca Deng: we're going nationwide.
779
:There we go.
780
:Um, yeah, I mean, there are so
many women who are interested,
781
:like you, you can feel the need.
782
:Um, and that's what I would definitely
say, that like, there is need,
783
:there is desire, um, and that in
and of itself is like what makes.
784
:I'm going to be doing this work.
785
:Exciting.
786
:Tony Tidbit: Wow.
787
:Wow.
788
:Now exciting.
789
:In talking about impact.
790
:You became a finalist for
the Givsly award, right?
791
:Which is a major award industry
award from the company called Givsly.
792
:Talk a little bit about that.
793
:And how did you feel
about becoming a finalist?
794
:Rebecca Deng: Yeah.
795
:So it's so interesting because I went
to a awards dinner with one of my
796
:colleagues and we were like watching
everyone go up and she turns to me and
797
:she was like, Mary, my, my friend Mary.
798
:And she's like, we should be up there.
799
:And I was like, what do you mean?
800
:And she was like, no, no,
no, I'm making a list.
801
:And she was just making
a list of all the things.
802
:And she was like, next
year you're applying.
803
:I'm applying this.
804
:We're all applying.
805
:Yeah.
806
:And I was like, okay.
807
:Um, and then I actually heard about
the Givsly Award in our Women in
808
:Programmatic Network WhatsApp group.
809
:Someone just posted it in there and was
like, sign up, apply, nominate yourselves.
810
:And I was like, okay, why not?
811
:And, um, I kind of put it off,
put it off, and then finally,
812
:like, you know, how it is, 3 a.
813
:m.,
814
:you finally do the submission.
815
:And it's like, okay, I've done it.
816
:Um, and I was just so excited
when it ended up working out.
817
:And it was really Less about me, but
more of just a vehicle to talk about the
818
:network, what we've been doing, but it was
one of those Situations that made it very
819
:clear to me that like it's not just about
doing the work You got to talk about the
820
:work and you got to put yourself out there
And I've had a couple of colleagues come
821
:up to me and say oh like that nomination
was so cool Like how did you get it?
822
:And I was like, well, I did it
myself and they're like, huh?
823
:I'm like you too Can do that for yourself.
824
:Tony Tidbit: Right, right.
825
:What, so what category
were you a finalists in
826
:Rebecca Deng: for rising rookies.
827
:So people with under 10 years
of experience in the OR at
828
:10 years of experience in ad
tech, just doing cool things.
829
:Tony Tidbit: That's awesome.
830
:That is awesome.
831
:How did that make you feel?
832
:Rebecca Deng: I was very proud of my team.
833
:I was very proud of the recognition and
actually what it made me think about were
834
:all of the things that we could be doing.
835
:To, uh, promote the network even more.
836
:Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm . Like,
837
:Rebecca Deng: you know, next time
around, we can think about ways that
838
:we, from like a marketing content
perspective, are submitting the network.
839
:Tony Tidbit: Right?
840
:Right.
841
:Rebecca Deng: How can I, you know,
the next time I get an opportunity
842
:to apply for something, think about
passing that along to a colleague.
843
:Right.
844
:How can we rise, you know, the tides
of all boats with these opportunities.
845
:Tony Tidbit: Right, right.
846
:Well, number one, that's awesome.
847
:Number two.
848
:You're always thinking of,
you know, how to give back.
849
:Sometimes it's good just to take a
deep breath and say, You know what?
850
:I am making an impact.
851
:You know, I, you know, the
things that I do bring to the
852
:table, people are recognizing it.
853
:Because if you don't, you
just got finished saying
854
:something a minute ago, right?
855
:That you had to learn it, you have
to, we all have to learn how to
856
:advocate for ourselves, right?
857
:Yeah.
858
:But we also gotta sometimes Sit back
and smell the roses a little bit.
859
:Enjoy it.
860
:And enjoy it, right?
861
:I mean, obviously people don't
want to do it because they don't
862
:want it to go to their head.
863
:I don't want to feel, you know,
that I'm, you know, this or that.
864
:But no, the effort that you put
in, right, people recognize it.
865
:Your company, TripleLift.
866
:Recognizes it.
867
:And so, and we'd fight our way up, right?
868
:And then so when you get that
recognition, um, it's always
869
:important to say, you know what?
870
:I think I'm going to have a glass of wine.
871
:I think I'm gonna, you know,
just like, wow, this is cool.
872
:Right?
873
:And there's nothing wrong with that.
874
:So I love that.
875
:So.
876
:So you're, you know, when we think
of people of color in the ad tech
877
:industry, uh, I don't know the
exact percentage, but it's low.
878
:Okay.
879
:Especially at the agency.
880
:I mean, look at all sides, the
vendors, brands, and the agencies.
881
:You broke in by going to
Cora and getting that.
882
:I don't want to say internship,
but starting to work with brands
883
:and stuff to that nature and it
opened your eyes that maybe this is
884
:something I want to get involved with.
885
:What advice would you give other young
people of color or just anybody in
886
:terms of how to break into the industry?
887
:And then more importantly, not just
breaking in, but making an impact.
888
:Rebecca Deng: Yeah, I mean, I would say.
889
:LinkedIn is your friend, know it well,
know who's on there, follow the trends.
890
:So
891
:Tony Tidbit: when you say LinkedIn is
your friend, what do you mean by that?
892
:Rebecca Deng: So just, well, first of all,
see who's talking, see what the trends
893
:are, see what, you know, is going on from
a mergers and acquisitions standpoint.
894
:Understand.
895
:Tony Tidbit: I thought you
said murders and acquisitions.
896
:Oh no.
897
:Rebecca Deng: Mergers.
898
:I
899
:Tony Tidbit: watch ID all the time.
900
:Same.
901
:Okay.
902
:Rebecca Deng: But just, I guess.
903
:You know, I would say personally
what I have found to be the catalyst
904
:of my success in terms of job
opportunities is just like really
905
:having a pulse on where the market is.
906
:So that is what I would say like longterm
career planning would be helpful.
907
:I would say in terms of breaking
in, thinking about those.
908
:I'm not going to say non traditional
opportunities, but you know, there
909
:could be, um, particular programs
where, you know, companies do mentorship
910
:opportunities where, you know, at Barnard,
um, we have, um, opportunities as alums
911
:to like, Bring a student to work for a day
and I actually went to YouTube's offices
912
:and spent the whole day trailing Barnard
alum as she was like running around
913
:doing all these cool things and that
really opened my eyes to the different
914
:opportunities So I would say, you know
doing things like that, but then like
915
:when we think about like longer term
planning, you know I feel very strongly
916
:anyone can have a job and like do a job
well but it takes like a level of like
917
:planning and ownership to have a And you
just got to, you got to be strategic.
918
:You got to be thinking two steps ahead.
919
:You got to be thinking, you
know, short term, long term,
920
:are you learning something?
921
:Are you earning good money?
922
:And if not, what from this
experience are you going to leverage
923
:to get you to the next thing?
924
:So it's not just about where
are you, but are you maximizing
925
:every opportunity where you are?
926
:Is there a learning
stipend at your company?
927
:Are there opportunities for you to go?
928
:You know, to add week to go to these
different venues where you can meet
929
:people, where you can learn things,
um, you have to, you have to go on
930
:the company wiki and you have to
make sure every stone is turned.
931
:You really have to see what's available.
932
:Right,
933
:Tony Tidbit: right.
934
:And, and the easy thing,
raise your hand, right?
935
:Raise your hand.
936
:Hey, I want to go there.
937
:Hey, I want to check this out.
938
:Hey, I want to learn more.
939
:Hey, can I come over and learn
more about what you're doing?
940
:Rebecca Deng: And I will
say like the number of.
941
:Um, women executives who have told
me, you know, the difference they
942
:see in men asking for things and
women asking for things is stark.
943
:And she said, and it's usually the
men who are just like, interested,
944
:passing, maybe the least qualified,
but they're asking for it.
945
:Whereas there are women who are, you know,
totally poised to take these opportunities
946
:on, but aren't putting themselves forward.
947
:Tony Tidbit: Right.
948
:Right.
949
:Right.
950
:Excellent point.
951
:You know, I want to put a cap on our
conversation that we had in the middle
952
:of this segment, when we talked about.
953
:The uncomfortable feeling that
people of color have when they're
954
:just trying to do their jobs.
955
:And then all of a sudden,
like, did I hear that?
956
:Or, you know, do they see me as an equal?
957
:Or, you know, did I get this
promotion or did I get passed
958
:over because of these issues?
959
:Blah, blah, blah.
960
:So the question I want to ask you is,
You know, what steps can companies
961
:take to, you know, you just stuff is
talking about, and it's one of the
962
:things I always believe playing chess,
not checkers, they can a couple of
963
:steps ahead instead of being reactive
and waiting for something to come up.
964
:So what could companies do to play
chess here when it comes to these
965
:issues and making sure that their
employees, regardless of gender,
966
:religion, sexuality, ethnicity, race.
967
:to think about those things.
968
:They can just move forward and
be the best person that they
969
:can be within that organization.
970
:What advice would you give?
971
:Rebecca Deng: So I actually just read a
HBR article about DE& I and essentially
972
:what it says is move the focus away from
people as in specific groups of people
973
:and think about systems as a company,
when you do, you know, your recruitment.
974
:Where are you actually going?
975
:Like, are you just putting
things up on LinkedIn?
976
:Are you going to colleges?
977
:Are you just going to a
certain subset of colleges?
978
:Are you really maximizing your system
to capture all of the available
979
:people who could do this job?
980
:And so I think sometimes like switching
it from person or group based thinking to
981
:systems, how do we maximize the system so
that, you know, in terms of the marketing
982
:funnel, we're capturing as many people.
983
:To work at our company or even
internally when you're thinking
984
:about who do we send on this trip?
985
:Who do we send here like for
these different opportunities?
986
:How are you maximizing the pool
of people internally who feel like
987
:they can take up this opportunity?
988
:And I think that you know,
a lot of it is just about
989
:access to opportunities and then
people feeling like they Can apply
990
:like people feeling like they do belong
991
:Tony Tidbit: right, right,
you know, so number one.
992
:Thanks for that number two You
know, I learned this a long time
993
:ago if I was and my mother taught me
this if I was Deaf, and I couldn't
994
:hear my mother say, I love you.
995
:I would know she loves
me by her actions, right?
996
:So you don't have to say it.
997
:It's by what you do that, you know,
there's an old saying, what you do speak
998
:so loudly that what you say, I can't hear.
999
:And I think a lot of times companies say.
:
00:50:21,015 --> 00:50:24,985
We're, we believe in this, so we
believe in that, and we're inclusive
:
00:50:24,985 --> 00:50:26,715
organization and this and that.
:
00:50:27,155 --> 00:50:29,695
And then they don't need to say those
things, they just need to do it.
:
00:50:30,285 --> 00:50:30,715
Right?
:
00:50:30,715 --> 00:50:32,145
And then people will see it.
:
00:50:32,155 --> 00:50:35,595
And, and look, there's a lot of companies
that are doing the right things.
:
00:50:35,845 --> 00:50:39,275
But, you know, I really appreciate
your feedback and, and your
:
00:50:39,305 --> 00:50:40,845
perspective on this as well.
:
00:50:40,845 --> 00:50:42,225
So, final thoughts.
:
00:50:42,225 --> 00:50:45,705
What do you want to leave the
audience today based on your
:
00:50:45,705 --> 00:50:48,715
journey, your background, and the
things that you're looking to do?
:
00:50:49,275 --> 00:50:49,875
Rebecca Deng: I think.
:
00:50:50,470 --> 00:50:57,430
Um, what I would say, um, best
advice that I have heard recently.
:
00:50:57,430 --> 00:51:01,090
So two things, an Obama interview
where he was actually chatting with
:
00:51:01,260 --> 00:51:05,370
someone about advice for people
in the workplace, like new grads.
:
00:51:05,710 --> 00:51:11,490
And he said, prioritize doing things like
actually saying what you're going to do
:
00:51:11,530 --> 00:51:16,110
and doing them, not just thinking, not
just, you know, waxing poetic, do things.
:
00:51:16,570 --> 00:51:21,170
Um, and then I actually was
watching an interview with Issa Rae.
:
00:51:21,755 --> 00:51:26,895
Where she talked about networking
and I think that it's so easy to
:
00:51:27,175 --> 00:51:30,865
say to people, especially people
who are early in their career.
:
00:51:31,135 --> 00:51:34,695
Network up, look for a mentor,
but it's so important to network
:
00:51:34,695 --> 00:51:40,405
across because like this group is
going to be your future cohort.
:
00:51:40,425 --> 00:51:43,905
This is going to be your cast of
co conspirators for the next moves
:
00:51:43,905 --> 00:51:45,085
that you make in your career.
:
00:51:45,085 --> 00:51:49,285
And it's just as important, you know,
to maybe know the hiring manager
:
00:51:49,285 --> 00:51:52,285
as it is to know the person who
will give you that referral, right.
:
00:51:52,575 --> 00:51:53,245
Long term.
:
00:51:53,255 --> 00:51:59,505
So I would say network, but
don't just, uh, Go up, go across.
:
00:52:00,135 --> 00:52:03,255
Tony Tidbit: Well, I'm glad you
and I networked together, right?
:
00:52:03,265 --> 00:52:04,705
And I'm glad you came in.
:
00:52:04,995 --> 00:52:08,885
And we are blessed that you shared
your perspective today on the Black
:
00:52:08,885 --> 00:52:10,495
Executive Perspective Podcast.
:
00:52:11,025 --> 00:52:12,625
So we want to thank you, Rebecca Deng.
:
00:52:12,905 --> 00:52:14,795
We wish you nothing but mad success.
:
00:52:15,025 --> 00:52:16,779
We're going to have you come back on.
:
00:52:16,850 --> 00:52:20,810
At some point down the road, so
you can share next when you become
:
00:52:20,810 --> 00:52:25,460
CEO or whether the case may be, you
know, well, when you like, ah, maybe
:
00:52:25,460 --> 00:52:27,100
I'll come to that, that podcast.
:
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,110
We'll see, but love you a lot.
:
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:29,790
And so excited.
:
00:52:29,790 --> 00:52:32,070
And I want you to stay right
there because you're going to
:
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,540
help us with our call to action.
:
00:52:34,430 --> 00:52:34,960
Okay.
:
00:52:34,970 --> 00:52:39,380
So I think it's now
time for Tony's tidbit.
:
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:45,870
So the tidbit today is always about
what we discuss, uh, in our episodes.
:
00:52:45,870 --> 00:52:50,120
And the tidbit is, and I quote,
leadership isn't about titles.
:
00:52:50,495 --> 00:52:51,815
It's about impact.
:
00:52:52,285 --> 00:52:57,975
True leaders empower others to rise,
innovate, and create lasting change.
:
00:52:58,445 --> 00:53:01,095
Success is not just about
climbing the ladder.
:
00:53:01,395 --> 00:53:04,985
It's about holDeng it
steady for others to follow.
:
00:53:05,465 --> 00:53:10,585
When diversity is celebrated and
equity becomes the norm, we unlock
:
00:53:10,645 --> 00:53:16,255
the power to transform industries
and inspire future generations.
:
00:53:16,775 --> 00:53:22,305
And so, so excited that Rebecca
Deng came on today and she expired
:
00:53:22,305 --> 00:53:27,235
us, uh, and we have a lot to look
forward to our future generations.
:
00:53:27,625 --> 00:53:32,365
So just a friendly reminder, don't
miss this week's Need to Know with Dr.
:
00:53:32,365 --> 00:53:35,425
Nsenga Burton on the Black
Executive Perspective podcast.
:
00:53:35,735 --> 00:53:36,045
Dr.
:
00:53:36,045 --> 00:53:40,925
Burton dives into the timely and crucial
topics that shape our community and world.
:
00:53:40,935 --> 00:53:44,085
She just keeps us up to
date on what's going on.
:
00:53:44,325 --> 00:53:48,935
So you want to gain insights and deepen
your understanDeng, visit Don't forget
:
00:53:48,995 --> 00:53:53,205
to check her out every Thursday on a
black executive perspective podcast.
:
00:53:53,455 --> 00:53:54,925
You do not want to miss it.
:
00:53:55,085 --> 00:53:57,105
So now it's time.
:
00:53:58,015 --> 00:54:03,455
For BEP's call to action, and for
those, if this is your first time, uh,
:
00:54:03,475 --> 00:54:07,765
listening or watching a Black Executive
Perspective podcast, our goal is to
:
00:54:07,765 --> 00:54:10,365
eliminate all forms of discrimination.
:
00:54:10,765 --> 00:54:14,925
And to achieve this, we've come
up with this acronym, and we want
:
00:54:14,995 --> 00:54:17,005
everyone to embrace it and do it.
:
00:54:17,005 --> 00:54:18,095
It's called LESS.
:
00:54:18,575 --> 00:54:20,845
L E S S.
:
00:54:21,095 --> 00:54:23,505
So Rebecca is going to
help us with this today.
:
00:54:23,505 --> 00:54:24,745
Rebecca, kick us off.
:
00:54:25,065 --> 00:54:26,675
Rebecca Deng: So the L stands for Learn.
:
00:54:26,805 --> 00:54:29,655
Educate yourself on racial
and cultural nuances.
:
00:54:30,225 --> 00:54:34,485
I think this is a great opportunity to,
you know, if you're questioning yourself,
:
00:54:34,515 --> 00:54:35,825
what you're doing, are you wrong?
:
00:54:35,825 --> 00:54:39,195
Are you saying the wrong thing
to give yourself some grace and
:
00:54:39,225 --> 00:54:43,425
to assume positive intent from
someone, if they want clarification.
:
00:54:43,565 --> 00:54:44,225
Tony Tidbit: Absolutely.
:
00:54:44,225 --> 00:54:46,475
And then the E stands for empathy.
:
00:54:46,795 --> 00:54:47,485
All right.
:
00:54:47,900 --> 00:54:51,070
Always be open to understand
diverse perspectives.
:
00:54:51,300 --> 00:54:53,810
And one of the things that's
very important, we want to make
:
00:54:53,810 --> 00:54:56,670
sure that we understand where
the other person is coming from.
:
00:54:56,670 --> 00:55:00,380
So after we've learned, now we
should have more, we should be more
:
00:55:00,390 --> 00:55:04,540
empathetic to what they go through and
have a better understanDeng because
:
00:55:04,540 --> 00:55:06,020
we've put ourselves in their shoes.
:
00:55:06,790 --> 00:55:09,980
Rebecca Deng: And the S stands for share,
share your insights to enlighten others.
:
00:55:09,980 --> 00:55:13,370
I think the Black Executive
Podcast is a perfect example of.
:
00:55:13,495 --> 00:55:17,675
What it means to share your experiences
so that people can hear about them
:
00:55:17,965 --> 00:55:19,415
and create more empathy for them.
:
00:55:19,495 --> 00:55:19,965
Tony Tidbit: Awesome.
:
00:55:19,965 --> 00:55:21,965
And then the final S stands for stop.
:
00:55:22,325 --> 00:55:25,495
You want to stop discrimination
as it walks in your path.
:
00:55:25,835 --> 00:55:29,485
So if uncle Joe says something at the
Thanksgiving table or the Christmas
:
00:55:29,485 --> 00:55:34,335
table or the Sunday table, and it's
inappropriate, you say, uncle Joe, we
:
00:55:34,335 --> 00:55:36,665
don't believe that we ain't doing that.
:
00:55:36,705 --> 00:55:38,505
And you stop it immediately.
:
00:55:38,765 --> 00:55:41,185
So if everyone can incorporate less.
:
00:55:41,550 --> 00:55:48,350
L E S S will build a more fair, more
understanDeng world, and we'll all be
:
00:55:48,350 --> 00:55:53,580
able to see the change that we want
to see because less will become more.
:
00:55:53,780 --> 00:55:53,990
Okay.
:
00:55:54,340 --> 00:55:54,990
How do you like that?
:
00:55:54,990 --> 00:55:55,200
Less.
:
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:55,960
That was good.
:
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,160
Oh, I thought, well, I appreciate that.
:
00:55:58,160 --> 00:55:59,770
I love it a lot.
:
00:55:59,770 --> 00:56:00,090
Right.
:
00:56:00,260 --> 00:56:05,210
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:
00:56:05,540 --> 00:56:08,790
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:
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:
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:
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:
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:
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:
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:
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